Black Mood Of White Collar Boss

　　 Sometimes, boss It's just like a dark cloud in the sky that people can't breathe. It's quite normal that the atmosphere doesn't dare to come out. The boss is like everyone's day. When he changes his face, our sky will fall down, and we all Little ants But if you read and analyze him carefully emotion If you do self relief, maybe you can help the boss get out of the dark clouds and see the smiling face again! The boss's black mood is not so bad!

Black mood of the boss

"Black" emotion 1: anger

Before Zhu Di entered the boss's office, he heard the boss roar in the room: "what's the matter with you people? How can you do things like this?! it's all a bucket!" Zhu Di knocked on the boss's door carefully. After a while, he heard the boss say, "come in!" Zhu Di entered the boss's room and saw several colleagues standing dejectedly receiving training. Seeing Zhu Di, the boss was still angry: "how can you come now? You can go!" several colleagues left the room quickly. In her experience, being summoned by the boss this time is very dangerous. Sure enough, the boss took out the plan that Zhu Di handed in yesterday, and "pa" fell on the table: "what's this thing you wrote? You don't even know the basic information of customers! There's also this place, this place! Is it appropriate to write this? Ah?" Zhu di didn't dare to argue, so he had to listen to the boss's reprimand. She didn't know how long it took her boss to run back to the office.

Back to her seat, Zhu Di was extremely aggrieved. Her business plan was clearly written at the meeting on Monday according to the requirements of her boss, but now she is being criticized by him for nothing. How can the boss ignore that he is a girl? He doesn't give her a face at all? The more she thinks about it, the more uncomfortable she feels. At lunch time, Zhu Di doesn't have the heart to eat. For several days, Zhu Di was depressed by the boss's black mood.

Interpretation of anger: in fact, in psychology, anger is often the embodiment of inner strength. The boss is generally the strength of the people, so that they can be on their own, so they are generally stronger, stronger, no doubt. When they encounter setbacks, they will show up in a more extreme way. Anger is actually a force to change a situation that we can't accept.

Analysis of the boss: Zhu Di, under the boss's anger, regards the boss's anger as pointing at himself. In fact, Zhu Di is just an object for the boss to vent his anger. The boss may have encountered some pressure outside, or he may have some problems in dealing with family relations. In short, don't think that the boss's emotions are caused by yourself, because you may not be so important to the boss. The boss can't get angry with customers or go to the street. The company is the safety zone under his control, so he is most likely to choose this safety zone to vent his emotions.

Tips for self relief:

1. Learn to watch what you say. When you find that the boss has signs of getting angry, as long as you don't have to look for him, avoid the limelight. Maybe he will return to normal tomorrow.

2. If you happen to be the boss's vent object, don't contradict and argue when he is angry. The more explanation, the easier it is to trigger his anger.

Don't think the boss will fire you if he is angry. If everyone resigns after being scolded by the boss, there may not be many people in the company!

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Second, anxiety

Recently, the boss is always flustered and anxious. Recently, the company has been trying to take away the core customers of the company. For many years, we have done business with our own factories. However, the company has a strong competitor. The boss of the other party seems to have had a bad time with the boss many years ago. These years, he has been competing with the company maliciously. Now he is openly soliciting the company's customers and declaring war on the company.

The boss's character is not firm enough, in the face of pressure will fall into anxiety. For example, this time, the other party just started to attract the company's customers, but failed, but the boss began to be a little nervous. In his tense mood, the company is also shrouded in an atmosphere of anxiety.

In fact, the lack of confidence is often the expression of anxiety. Because of the lack of self-confidence, I will worry about the situation that I can't control.

In fact, a lot of times, the boss will never be good to analyze things. Anxiety is a kind of stress reaction in the face of great pressure. When the boss is anxious, it means that he is under great pressure. At this time, as a subordinate, you should support him, not be influenced by him and fall into anxiety. Don't give up before the end.

Tips for self relief:

1. Tell yourself that there were many people who worried about the earthquake, tsunami, and the prediction of the end of the world, but we are still alive safely. It doesn't have to be visible.

2. Anxiety is often caused by self-confidence, so always remind yourself to maintain self-confidence.

3. Even if the anxious things do happen, what will happen? Imagine your own way out.

4. The disabled can have a happy life.

"Black" emotion 3: Depression

Since her boss came back from a business trip in Tokyo, case has found that her boss has become very depressed. As an assistant, of course, Kath dare not ask the boss what she has to do. She can only work more carefully and help the boss arrange all the things that should be arranged by her. After a few days, the situation still did not improve. Other employees in the company also noticed the boss's mood. They didn't dare to speak loudly in the office. The atmosphere of the company became more and more depressed.

Kathy thought it was no way to go on like this, so one day before work, she deliberately stayed for the reason of talking to her boss about business, and then asked him to go to the coffee shop in the building to chat. In a relaxed atmosphere, she began to talk about her boss's trip to Tokyo. The boss finally told her the reason for her abnormal mood recently.

It turns out that the boss has a senior brother who has always been a model for him. After graduation, he also successfully started his own business and married school flower as his wife. Eight years ago, my senior brother went to Japan with his entrepreneurial capital to reunite with his wife studying in Japan. This time in Tokyo, the boss met his senior brother, but his face was completely changed. Soon after he arrived in Japan, his wife betrayed him. The depressed elder martial brother drowned his sorrows by drinking and soon squandered his savings. He had no choice but to live in Japan. He lived a poor life in the red light district of Tokyo. When the boss saw him, he told the boss that he was in advanced stage of liver cancer, and asked the boss not to tell his parents in China about his current situation.

The boss had always wanted to expand the company's business to Tokyo. Subconsciously, he was also influenced by the glorious image of his senior brother. But I didn't expect that my role model for many years was so bad that the boss fell into depression when he came back.

Case understands the boss's feelings very well, but case tells the boss that the boss's depression has spread to the whole company. If it is not adjusted, the morale of the company's employees will be greatly affected, and everyone has always trusted the boss and believes that the company's performance will be booming. The boss woke up with a start and promised Kath to cheer up the next day.

Interpretation of depression: depression is a mechanism of self-protection in the face of pressure, which is often produced in the face of unpleasant changes in life. Its performance is negative and pessimistic. Depression is different from anxiety. It is not a long-term or stable reflection of a person's character, but only in the face of some special pressure.

Analysis of the boss: the boss is also a human being, and he will be vulnerable. When he encounters some unpleasant things, he will also have a feeling of depression. It's better for Kathy to learn the reason of his bad mood for a long time, and help him to learn from this bad mood.

Tips for self relief:

1. When the boss is depressed, it often indicates that there is something wrong with the boss's personal situation, such as encountering some blows and disappointments.

2. Usually people's depression will be self-healing, do not disturb the boss in the early stage of depression.

If your boss's morale has been affected for a long time, or if your boss's morale has been affected for a long time, 3.

4. Tell the boss that you support him and help him tide over the difficulties.